By Josephine Lim
Every person God has placed in our lives for a reason. When we are disappointed with someone, there's a tendency for us to reject, refuse, disconnect and not bother to care anymore.
Few days ago, in our connect group we discussed about Forgiveness. Many of them said, it's even more hurtful when someone close to us hurt and offend us. Yes, they know that the Bible said we must forgive but what if they keep on hurting and offending us.
Well, first and foremost by choosing to forgive is in fact for our own benefit because harbouring bitterness would only lead to dissatisfaction, disunity, strife, depression engender sickness. It will also make us older than our years.
By not forgiving others not only we are depriving blessing from someone but we are also depriving ourselves of happiness, restoration and healing for our soul. Our soul, spirit, mind and body need to be nurtured with joy, peace and love. Without them, we would lead a miserable life.
We are created to love, to give, to share, to minister, to care, to bless and to forgive. The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed (Proverbs 11:25). In our daily lives, we are surrounded by human being thus there are high chances that people might offend us and/or vice-versa. To err is human. But on our part we have the control by not allowing these offences to get the better of us. No one can offend us unless we allow it to take root in our heart.
Also sometimes, if the things we want to see happen don't happen as the way we want it to be, do know that God has His purpose in it. Do realise that "we can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps" (Proverbs 16:9). To humans belong the plans of the heart, but from the LORD comes the proper answer of the tongue (Proverbs 16:1). All things (bad or good) work out for good to those who love Him and called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).
Sometimes the things that others did and said of which we disagreed could also be God's direction although we can't fully understand their actions and decisions just yet. Do realise that our life is directed by the Lord and we've got to live by faith and trust that whatever happens, God still has an upper hand and His purpose and plan for our lives will surely prevail.
Let me share with you an excerpt of an email I sent to someone dear to my heart when her family members went against her good intention and wishes:
"Sometimes we have got to learn to let go. We can't always have people agreeing with us all the time even though we are right. Sometimes it's good to observe and being the receiver. Give others the opportunity to plan and contribute. Then they will take responsibility and grow because when they are empowered they will appreciate it much more.
If others decide not to heed our advise and do their own thing then all we can do is to pray and commit it to the Lord, then speak to the person again if you are led to do so. If they follow, good but if they don't, don't worry someday God will open their heart and cause them to realise. There's season for everything hence we have got to learn to be patient and be gracious to one another as the Lord has been so gracious to us countless times although we don't deserve His forgiveness each time.”
Think of the good that others have done to us. Their wrongs let us write it on the sand, while their good deeds let us engrave it on the stone. Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable – if anything is excellent or praiseworthy – think about such things (Philippians 4:8). Don't allow our mind to keep rewinding and playing the faults of others, we should be filling our heart and mind with Philippians 4:8 leading to joy, peace and love resulting in health and productivity. For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:4-5).
By choosing to disconnect and not to forgive will only destroy ourselves and deprive us from the joy of giving, forgiving, healing, restoration and happiness that God meant to give us.
Love our enemies and pray for those who persecute you that you may be the children of your Father in heaven (Matthew 5:44). From my experience, when I choose to obey God (although reluctantly in the beginning) by praying for the person who have offended me, I found it easier thereafter to forgive him/her. Because prayer of blessing does bring people closer and will smoothen the path of reconciliation.
Jesus died and forgave us when we were still sinners and how much more we should forgive others. Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18:21-22).
Proverbs 3:27-28
27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to act.
28 Do not say to your neighbour,
“Come back tomorrow and I’ll give it to you”—
when you already have it with you.
When we forgive others (out of obedience to God), we are actually releasing blessing to that person so he/she could be a blessing to others too and in turn we will also be blessed.
Having said that, for those who keep offending and hurting others should humble themselves in love to seek for forgiveness. Let us also be aware of re-offenders who just want to take advantage or exploit us, then we should forgive wisely and not subjecting ourselves to further abuse and exploitation. Jesus said, “I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16). We need to be led by His Holy Spirit to live our lives responsibly with sense of accountability so we can be effective in service and impacting others.
Matthew 5:44-48
But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
There has been too many unforgiveness in this world and sadly far too long for some. The greatest failure of humankind is not loving people enough. We can never over-love someone because we have the tendency to love people less than we should. Love with grace and with the wisdom of God. Forgive one another with a clear conscience of the purpose we are doing so for our own good (first and foremost) and the good of others.
Friday, 11 November 2011
Friday, 14 October 2011
Make Jesus Your LIFE-PARTNER and you'll get PASSION back into your life!
By Josephine Lim
When it comes to the question on how to ignite passion towards life, work, ministry, relationship, or pursue our dreams there’s no better person to inquire than the creator and giver of life Himself – God (Genesis 2:7)!
Once you feel uninspired and de-motivated with doing (beneficial/good) things you used to enjoy, it is just a matter of time that you lose your passion towards life. You’ll be asking: Why am I here? Am I capable of making a difference? Do I have any unfinished assignment? Will I be able to make any significant contribution? Am I really that important? Is life worth living anymore? Well, if you have family or loved ones around, of course you know you are important and you have got to continue living whether you like it or not. But is this the kind of life that God meant for us to live?
John 10:10
Jesus said, “The thief's (our enemy: the devil) purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” Another Bible translation - "My purpose is to give them life and life more abundantly".
Let me share my testimony. Recently I started leading the Ladies Connect Group and initially I thought it’s going to be a simple gathering with everybody sharing their concerns and then we’ll pray. As simple as that I thought when God first impressed upon my heart to start a Ladies Connect Group until Samantha my CG Leader approached me to lead. My perspective changed, a sense of responsibility consumed me and I went straight to God to inquire of His wisdom how I should lead the CG and He brought to my remembrance the book I’ve always wanted to write entitled “The Bride of Christ. “ Not satisfied with just a reminder I asked Him for more detailed guidance in organising CG and planning the discussion materials according to His will. He thus guided me through and told me to prepare it the way I want to discover Christ in a fresh new way. The more I sought and inquired of Him, along the journey of discovery, He revealed to me far beyond what I have ever been taught or learnt before. My passion has been revived and my faith has definitely increased with new revelation of Him.
Launch of The Bride of Christ website: http://the-brideofchrist.blogspot.com/
From this encounter, God impressed upon my heart that if we want to get passionate with life – with our work/career, ministry, relationship, pursuing our dreams, etc we need to get into the details with Him. We need to acknowledge our need of His faithful guidance every step of the way because He is the ultimate source of all wisdom, strength, ideas, creativity, deliverance and victory. He will never run out of resources. My God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).
Let’s look at some examples from the Bible:
1. David inquired of the Lord and the Lord gave him instructions and gave him victory on all sides even though his enemy's army were far more numerous and better equipped than his own (1 Samuel 23:1-6, 1 Samuel 30:6-8, 2 Samuel 5:19-25, etc)
2. Solomon sought the Lord and the Lord was so pleased with him that He granted him wisdom, knowledge, wealth, possessions and honour, such as no king who was before him had and none after him will have (2 Chronicles 1:6-12)
3. When Daniel heard that a decree had been issued that whoever pray to other gods than King Darius himself shall be thrown into the lions’ den. Daniel prayed and asked the Lord for help, giving thanks before the Lord. Daniel was thus discovered praying to God hence he was thrown into the lion’s den. God sent angels to shut the mouths of the lions and Daniel gained the favour of the king and was lifted out from the den unscathed (Daniel 6)
Inquire of the Lord and get into the details with His guidance. He will provide you with the details. As you put your faith into action it pleases Him otherwise it will be like a prayer without expectations yielding no result. For example, someone invites you for dinner but it will only materialise if details such as date, time and address are discussed and agreed by both parties. The same it is with prayer, get into the details with your LIFE-Partner! God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect (Hebrews 11:40). Plans fail for lack of counsel (Proverbs 15:22)
When it comes to choosing our career path. Do know that God has given each one of us gifts and talents. If we have yet to discover, then ask the Lord to reveal to us. We have the grace to be ourselves and the work of our hands perform in faith God honours and surely prospers. Let us not decide on our career choice based on monetary gain or because someone else wants us to. Be in our grace and stay true to ourselves. Once we get passionate with our job/career we will excel leaps and bounds leading to fulfillment and satisfaction. Buried dreams and visions make us lose passion of living. Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life (Proverbs 13:12).
Thought of sharing this inspiring video clip with all of you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W86jlvrG54o&feature=related
John 15:5 & 16
Jesus said, “I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.”
John 14:12-13
I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, if anyone steadfastly believes in Me, he will himself be able to do the things that I do; and he will do even greater things than these. And I will do whatever you ask in My Name.
Honestly you can’t get real passion and satisfaction in life without Jesus being the centre of your life. The only fulfilment and satisfaction in life is when you have the ultimate giver and creator of life inside you. He is our confidence in living and truly He is our Life and Passion! When your relationship with the Lord is right by faith you will be able to stand and trust confidently in His promises, you will reign in life!
Make Jesus your ultimate LIFE-Partner and you’ll get passion back into your life!
A book I will highly recommend is Master is Calling by Lynne Hammond. It is powerfully written to transform your prayer life hence relationship with our Beautiful LIFE-Partner. Practically written and full of anointing. A book that will help change your life!
When it comes to the question on how to ignite passion towards life, work, ministry, relationship, or pursue our dreams there’s no better person to inquire than the creator and giver of life Himself – God (Genesis 2:7)!
Once you feel uninspired and de-motivated with doing (beneficial/good) things you used to enjoy, it is just a matter of time that you lose your passion towards life. You’ll be asking: Why am I here? Am I capable of making a difference? Do I have any unfinished assignment? Will I be able to make any significant contribution? Am I really that important? Is life worth living anymore? Well, if you have family or loved ones around, of course you know you are important and you have got to continue living whether you like it or not. But is this the kind of life that God meant for us to live?
John 10:10
Jesus said, “The thief's (our enemy: the devil) purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.” Another Bible translation - "My purpose is to give them life and life more abundantly".
Let me share my testimony. Recently I started leading the Ladies Connect Group and initially I thought it’s going to be a simple gathering with everybody sharing their concerns and then we’ll pray. As simple as that I thought when God first impressed upon my heart to start a Ladies Connect Group until Samantha my CG Leader approached me to lead. My perspective changed, a sense of responsibility consumed me and I went straight to God to inquire of His wisdom how I should lead the CG and He brought to my remembrance the book I’ve always wanted to write entitled “The Bride of Christ. “ Not satisfied with just a reminder I asked Him for more detailed guidance in organising CG and planning the discussion materials according to His will. He thus guided me through and told me to prepare it the way I want to discover Christ in a fresh new way. The more I sought and inquired of Him, along the journey of discovery, He revealed to me far beyond what I have ever been taught or learnt before. My passion has been revived and my faith has definitely increased with new revelation of Him.
Launch of The Bride of Christ website: http://the-brideofchrist.blogspot.com/
From this encounter, God impressed upon my heart that if we want to get passionate with life – with our work/career, ministry, relationship, pursuing our dreams, etc we need to get into the details with Him. We need to acknowledge our need of His faithful guidance every step of the way because He is the ultimate source of all wisdom, strength, ideas, creativity, deliverance and victory. He will never run out of resources. My God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).
Let’s look at some examples from the Bible:
1. David inquired of the Lord and the Lord gave him instructions and gave him victory on all sides even though his enemy's army were far more numerous and better equipped than his own (1 Samuel 23:1-6, 1 Samuel 30:6-8, 2 Samuel 5:19-25, etc)
2. Solomon sought the Lord and the Lord was so pleased with him that He granted him wisdom, knowledge, wealth, possessions and honour, such as no king who was before him had and none after him will have (2 Chronicles 1:6-12)
3. When Daniel heard that a decree had been issued that whoever pray to other gods than King Darius himself shall be thrown into the lions’ den. Daniel prayed and asked the Lord for help, giving thanks before the Lord. Daniel was thus discovered praying to God hence he was thrown into the lion’s den. God sent angels to shut the mouths of the lions and Daniel gained the favour of the king and was lifted out from the den unscathed (Daniel 6)
Inquire of the Lord and get into the details with His guidance. He will provide you with the details. As you put your faith into action it pleases Him otherwise it will be like a prayer without expectations yielding no result. For example, someone invites you for dinner but it will only materialise if details such as date, time and address are discussed and agreed by both parties. The same it is with prayer, get into the details with your LIFE-Partner! God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect (Hebrews 11:40). Plans fail for lack of counsel (Proverbs 15:22)
When it comes to choosing our career path. Do know that God has given each one of us gifts and talents. If we have yet to discover, then ask the Lord to reveal to us. We have the grace to be ourselves and the work of our hands perform in faith God honours and surely prospers. Let us not decide on our career choice based on monetary gain or because someone else wants us to. Be in our grace and stay true to ourselves. Once we get passionate with our job/career we will excel leaps and bounds leading to fulfillment and satisfaction. Buried dreams and visions make us lose passion of living. Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life (Proverbs 13:12).
Thought of sharing this inspiring video clip with all of you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W86jlvrG54o&feature=related
John 15:5 & 16
Jesus said, “I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit--fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.”
John 14:12-13
I assure you, most solemnly I tell you, if anyone steadfastly believes in Me, he will himself be able to do the things that I do; and he will do even greater things than these. And I will do whatever you ask in My Name.
Honestly you can’t get real passion and satisfaction in life without Jesus being the centre of your life. The only fulfilment and satisfaction in life is when you have the ultimate giver and creator of life inside you. He is our confidence in living and truly He is our Life and Passion! When your relationship with the Lord is right by faith you will be able to stand and trust confidently in His promises, you will reign in life!
Make Jesus your ultimate LIFE-Partner and you’ll get passion back into your life!
A book I will highly recommend is Master is Calling by Lynne Hammond. It is powerfully written to transform your prayer life hence relationship with our Beautiful LIFE-Partner. Practically written and full of anointing. A book that will help change your life!
Friday, 24 June 2011
Stay true to yourself / Be Yourself
By Josephine Lim
We can easily get discouraged whenever we watch TV, read the news and magazines, or hear about how successful or rich some people are. Our hearts long to be like them, to be intelligent like them, to be very rich like them, to be famous like them and finally how we wish we could be like them. When we realised how far-off we are compared to them we feel depressed and began to lose strength and joy of living.
By staying true to yourself (being yourself), you'll become the best of you according to God's plan and purpose for your life. You're not a copycat of others and that's why God created us distinctly unique, different from anybody else. No one shares the same finger print or iris/retinal pattern with another. No one is exactly the same as another not even identical twins. God cherish uniqueness and He loves us just the way we are and just the way we were born and just the way we turn out to be. Know and recognise what's inside of us. What is God's call and gifts He has placed in us and excel and use it for His glory to serve others. We are like no other. We have different calls and gifts that together with our unique God-given talents we complement each other beautifully. Our success is not measured by our fame neither by our fortune but true success is measured by true fulfilment in doing what we are doing and the lives we have touched, built and edified according to God's will and purpose. At the end of our lives, naked we came into the world, naked we shall depart and it's the legacy we leave behind - how much we have blessed others with our God-given wealth, intelligence, strength, resources, gifts, etc.
No matter how rich we are, there will always be somebody else richer. No matter how smart or intelligent we are, there will always be others more advance and intelligent. No matter how famous one can be, there will always be somebody else much more sought-after and adored by legend of fans in comparison. We will never be satisfied if we start comparing with others but learn to appreciate yourself, accepting who you are and know your worth. Let no man or the world categorise you as you are beyond that. Don't live life through people's eyes and views. Let's live life through the eyes of Christ and according to His Word: Psalm 139:14 " I praise you (God) because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Don't change yourself just to get someone else's approval and acceptance. Change because you want to for God, for yourself and for the betterment of your service in God's Kingdom otherwise the change will not sustain and soon you will go back to your old ways. Change with the right motive and the right mind-set that is God-centred and then your life will impact the lives of others much more.
Believe this my friend: For those of you who are looking for soul-mate, God has prepared someone for you that will love and appreciate you just the way you are. For those of you who are seeking employment or solicit business opportunities or launch your career, you don't have to over-promise your abilities or potentials, stay true to what you know and can do and what you really want to do for the organisation, surely God will grant you favour in the eyes of the employer/business associates/agency seeing your potential and give you the upper hand in their selection and decision. It's your uniqueness and focus as well as realising God's touch of favour in your life that will get you to the position, time and place that He wants to give you. Stay true to yourself and you'll come to realisation of the great potential God has given us to do great exploits for Him and His Kingdom! Stay true to yourself without comparison, without belittling yourself. You'll then be able to focus and channel all your energy and resources together achieving your dreams and find great satisfaction in the things you do. That's success, that's fulfilment and that's life!
Stay true to yourself and be what God wants you to be! Let not success, wealth and fame be our focus instead make God and His Kingdom our focus and ask the Lord for wisdom and guidance to use our ability, talents and resources according to His will and purpose then we'll be a real blessing to others and find real fulfilment and joy in the process. Matthew 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Philippians 4:6-9
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
Proverbs 31:31
Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Anita Lustrea described the purpose of her book "What Women Tell Me" wrote,"It is my desire to help free you from the overwhelming message that, as a woman, you are not enough – not strong enough, not beautiful enough, not thin enough, not whole enough. The truth is, none of us is “enough”; that’s where Christ comes in"
I hope this song will encourage you. It's a song from the musical Lend Me A Tenor entitled "Be Yourself" http://tenorthemusical.co.uk/musicplayer/ (click forward to track 2 and be patient to listen till the end and this song will eventually build up beautifully.)
Acknowledge this my friend: You are fearfully (very detailed) and wonderfully made by God. You are a blessing wherever you go!
We can easily get discouraged whenever we watch TV, read the news and magazines, or hear about how successful or rich some people are. Our hearts long to be like them, to be intelligent like them, to be very rich like them, to be famous like them and finally how we wish we could be like them. When we realised how far-off we are compared to them we feel depressed and began to lose strength and joy of living.
By staying true to yourself (being yourself), you'll become the best of you according to God's plan and purpose for your life. You're not a copycat of others and that's why God created us distinctly unique, different from anybody else. No one shares the same finger print or iris/retinal pattern with another. No one is exactly the same as another not even identical twins. God cherish uniqueness and He loves us just the way we are and just the way we were born and just the way we turn out to be. Know and recognise what's inside of us. What is God's call and gifts He has placed in us and excel and use it for His glory to serve others. We are like no other. We have different calls and gifts that together with our unique God-given talents we complement each other beautifully. Our success is not measured by our fame neither by our fortune but true success is measured by true fulfilment in doing what we are doing and the lives we have touched, built and edified according to God's will and purpose. At the end of our lives, naked we came into the world, naked we shall depart and it's the legacy we leave behind - how much we have blessed others with our God-given wealth, intelligence, strength, resources, gifts, etc.
No matter how rich we are, there will always be somebody else richer. No matter how smart or intelligent we are, there will always be others more advance and intelligent. No matter how famous one can be, there will always be somebody else much more sought-after and adored by legend of fans in comparison. We will never be satisfied if we start comparing with others but learn to appreciate yourself, accepting who you are and know your worth. Let no man or the world categorise you as you are beyond that. Don't live life through people's eyes and views. Let's live life through the eyes of Christ and according to His Word: Psalm 139:14 " I praise you (God) because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
Don't change yourself just to get someone else's approval and acceptance. Change because you want to for God, for yourself and for the betterment of your service in God's Kingdom otherwise the change will not sustain and soon you will go back to your old ways. Change with the right motive and the right mind-set that is God-centred and then your life will impact the lives of others much more.
Believe this my friend: For those of you who are looking for soul-mate, God has prepared someone for you that will love and appreciate you just the way you are. For those of you who are seeking employment or solicit business opportunities or launch your career, you don't have to over-promise your abilities or potentials, stay true to what you know and can do and what you really want to do for the organisation, surely God will grant you favour in the eyes of the employer/business associates/agency seeing your potential and give you the upper hand in their selection and decision. It's your uniqueness and focus as well as realising God's touch of favour in your life that will get you to the position, time and place that He wants to give you. Stay true to yourself and you'll come to realisation of the great potential God has given us to do great exploits for Him and His Kingdom! Stay true to yourself without comparison, without belittling yourself. You'll then be able to focus and channel all your energy and resources together achieving your dreams and find great satisfaction in the things you do. That's success, that's fulfilment and that's life!
Stay true to yourself and be what God wants you to be! Let not success, wealth and fame be our focus instead make God and His Kingdom our focus and ask the Lord for wisdom and guidance to use our ability, talents and resources according to His will and purpose then we'll be a real blessing to others and find real fulfilment and joy in the process. Matthew 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Philippians 4:6-9
6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. 9 The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
Proverbs 31:31
Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Anita Lustrea described the purpose of her book "What Women Tell Me" wrote,"It is my desire to help free you from the overwhelming message that, as a woman, you are not enough – not strong enough, not beautiful enough, not thin enough, not whole enough. The truth is, none of us is “enough”; that’s where Christ comes in"
I hope this song will encourage you. It's a song from the musical Lend Me A Tenor entitled "Be Yourself" http://tenorthemusical.co.uk/musicplayer/ (click forward to track 2 and be patient to listen till the end and this song will eventually build up beautifully.)
Acknowledge this my friend: You are fearfully (very detailed) and wonderfully made by God. You are a blessing wherever you go!
Thursday, 19 May 2011
Bounce-Off All Negativity / Not Giving Up Hope!
By Josephine Lim
Yesterday morning while travelling on the bus, I overheard a conversation between a man and a woman. They are both friends. The woman broke the news of her recent separation from her husband and went on to tell how she’s coping with it all, her husband’s affair, his mistress, her children, her parents’ reactions, their matrimonial home, her new job, and how she stays positive and carry on with life, etc. The man later shared about his new job and upcoming vacations with his wife and children. He sounded very much looking forward to the vacation but tried to contain his excitement being considerate to the woman's predicament.
Last week, I heard a news of someone I knew suffering from breast cancer on both her breasts. Not only her, there was another woman who has been suffering from breast cancer for many years and had spread to her liver. After hearing the news, my heart sank and was heavy laden and realised how easily the news could affect our emotion and caused us to worry too.
It’s so easy for us to take on the feelings and emotions of those who are facing marital problems, sickness and diseases, redundancy, unemployment, etc as if it could happen to any of us at anytime. But we are to bounce-off all negativity from our hearts. Yes, it’s definitely good to pray and show compassion for those who are facing tough times but we don’t have to accept or receive the same predicament as if it could happen to us.
Whenever we hear bad news and discouraging words, we are not to take them onboard and be fearful and frightened ourselves instead we should stand firm and strong, proclaiming and declaring God’s goodness, favour and faithfulness over us that He is our sun and shield (Psalm 84:11), our protection and deliverer (Psalm 91), provider and mighty God (Philippians 4:19) who is our confident trust (Proverbs 3:26 ) of all good things to come (James 1:17). When we are strong we are a blessing, comforter and encourager to those who need emotional and moral support. We can’t help others if we ourselves are fearful, worried and in doubt. We are able to be the salt and light that God has called us to be (Matthew 5:13-16) when we acknowledge that the rock we stand is on Christ our firm foundation and His word and promises will never pass away even though all others will pass away (Matthew 24:35).
Let us not give up on hope. Never give up on our visions, dreams and desires in our hearts. Recently many pastors shared and encouraged us to “Keep hoping!”, “Keep believing!”, “Don’t give up as it shall surely come to pass!”, “Keep our passions alive!”, “Don’t give up on hope”, “Keep moving, you’re going to make it!”, “Write your vision(s) down and run with it!”, “Let’s see ourselves as what God sees us!”, etc. I have a personal testimony to share in line with this.
On the Sunday of our Hillsong Colour Conference week, I wanted to get to church early to beat the queue and the crowd. I saw the bus I was waiting for was about to turn the corner. The distance from where I was to the bus stop was two minutes walk away and based on previous attempts in such a circumstance had all been a failure but I really wanted to get on the bus thus decided to run as fast as I could to try to catch it. In my heart, I was thanking God that I was wearing my sport shoes instead of high heels, while some part of my heart was telling me to give up that I would surely miss the bus, no point of even trying to run as I am going to fail as always, but on my mind I was telling myself, “Josephine, don’t give up! Run as fast as you can. You shall surely make it. Go for it! You will make it! Run, run, run!” So, I ran even though I was still wrestling with the thought of giving up but I chose not to give up but ran as fast as I could that within 20 seconds or so I arrived at the bus stop the same time as the last passenger got on the bus. I made it in the nick of time for the bus driver saw me. As I was about to get on the bus, I was greeted by a friend who had just walked past me of whom I’ve not seen for sometime and said to me with a grin on his face complimented that I looked good and would call me later and was indeed happy to see me again.
After this incident, I received this prompting from the Lord saying, “Josephine, never give up. You can do all things if you don’t give up!” So, friends when we don’t give up but keep believing, we shall surely be very HAPpy when it HAPpens! Don’t postpone our joy. Rejoice always, pray continuously, and give thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18) for the joy of the Lord is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10b). So whenever we are strike down with worry, fear, sadness and anxiety, tell ourselves this, “Good things and answered prayers are coming my way. It is going to happen for me! I am not going to put weight on what the world is saying or my current circumstances. My trust is in you, Lord! No matter how hopeless the situation can be, I still choose to trust in You and I will not give up. You're going to make it happen for me for my good, for my victory and for your glory in Jesus' Name. Amen!”
Proverbs 10:4 Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth.
Proverbs 13:4 ......the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied.
Proverbs 21:5 The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.
Beautiful Songs:
Love You So Much: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jkk4gTAXvA
You Are My Strength: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0jjczHhi6c&feature=related
You Are Faithful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9h8SEDqJXM&feature=related
Yesterday morning while travelling on the bus, I overheard a conversation between a man and a woman. They are both friends. The woman broke the news of her recent separation from her husband and went on to tell how she’s coping with it all, her husband’s affair, his mistress, her children, her parents’ reactions, their matrimonial home, her new job, and how she stays positive and carry on with life, etc. The man later shared about his new job and upcoming vacations with his wife and children. He sounded very much looking forward to the vacation but tried to contain his excitement being considerate to the woman's predicament.
Last week, I heard a news of someone I knew suffering from breast cancer on both her breasts. Not only her, there was another woman who has been suffering from breast cancer for many years and had spread to her liver. After hearing the news, my heart sank and was heavy laden and realised how easily the news could affect our emotion and caused us to worry too.
It’s so easy for us to take on the feelings and emotions of those who are facing marital problems, sickness and diseases, redundancy, unemployment, etc as if it could happen to any of us at anytime. But we are to bounce-off all negativity from our hearts. Yes, it’s definitely good to pray and show compassion for those who are facing tough times but we don’t have to accept or receive the same predicament as if it could happen to us.
Whenever we hear bad news and discouraging words, we are not to take them onboard and be fearful and frightened ourselves instead we should stand firm and strong, proclaiming and declaring God’s goodness, favour and faithfulness over us that He is our sun and shield (Psalm 84:11), our protection and deliverer (Psalm 91), provider and mighty God (Philippians 4:19) who is our confident trust (Proverbs 3:26 ) of all good things to come (James 1:17). When we are strong we are a blessing, comforter and encourager to those who need emotional and moral support. We can’t help others if we ourselves are fearful, worried and in doubt. We are able to be the salt and light that God has called us to be (Matthew 5:13-16) when we acknowledge that the rock we stand is on Christ our firm foundation and His word and promises will never pass away even though all others will pass away (Matthew 24:35).
Let us not give up on hope. Never give up on our visions, dreams and desires in our hearts. Recently many pastors shared and encouraged us to “Keep hoping!”, “Keep believing!”, “Don’t give up as it shall surely come to pass!”, “Keep our passions alive!”, “Don’t give up on hope”, “Keep moving, you’re going to make it!”, “Write your vision(s) down and run with it!”, “Let’s see ourselves as what God sees us!”, etc. I have a personal testimony to share in line with this.
On the Sunday of our Hillsong Colour Conference week, I wanted to get to church early to beat the queue and the crowd. I saw the bus I was waiting for was about to turn the corner. The distance from where I was to the bus stop was two minutes walk away and based on previous attempts in such a circumstance had all been a failure but I really wanted to get on the bus thus decided to run as fast as I could to try to catch it. In my heart, I was thanking God that I was wearing my sport shoes instead of high heels, while some part of my heart was telling me to give up that I would surely miss the bus, no point of even trying to run as I am going to fail as always, but on my mind I was telling myself, “Josephine, don’t give up! Run as fast as you can. You shall surely make it. Go for it! You will make it! Run, run, run!” So, I ran even though I was still wrestling with the thought of giving up but I chose not to give up but ran as fast as I could that within 20 seconds or so I arrived at the bus stop the same time as the last passenger got on the bus. I made it in the nick of time for the bus driver saw me. As I was about to get on the bus, I was greeted by a friend who had just walked past me of whom I’ve not seen for sometime and said to me with a grin on his face complimented that I looked good and would call me later and was indeed happy to see me again.
After this incident, I received this prompting from the Lord saying, “Josephine, never give up. You can do all things if you don’t give up!” So, friends when we don’t give up but keep believing, we shall surely be very HAPpy when it HAPpens! Don’t postpone our joy. Rejoice always, pray continuously, and give thanks in all circumstances (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18) for the joy of the Lord is our strength (Nehemiah 8:10b). So whenever we are strike down with worry, fear, sadness and anxiety, tell ourselves this, “Good things and answered prayers are coming my way. It is going to happen for me! I am not going to put weight on what the world is saying or my current circumstances. My trust is in you, Lord! No matter how hopeless the situation can be, I still choose to trust in You and I will not give up. You're going to make it happen for me for my good, for my victory and for your glory in Jesus' Name. Amen!”
Proverbs 10:4 Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth.
Proverbs 13:4 ......the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied.
Proverbs 21:5 The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.
Beautiful Songs:
Love You So Much: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jkk4gTAXvA
You Are My Strength: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0jjczHhi6c&feature=related
You Are Faithful: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9h8SEDqJXM&feature=related
Tuesday, 29 March 2011
You are Blessed and a Blessing!
By Josephine Lim
We are blessed because of Christ in us. His Spirit indwells in us and with His anointing we prosper in all that we do and a blessing wherever we go. We are a carrier of blessings. When we’re conscious of Christ in us, there’s deliverance, power, and victory from fear, worry, anxiety, failure, brokenness and “lack” mentality.
Genesis 39
2 The LORD was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. 3 When his master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD gave him success in everything he did, 4 Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned. 5 From the time he put him in charge of his household and of all that he owned, the LORD blessed the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph. The blessing of the LORD was on everything Potiphar had, both in the house and in the field. 6 So Potiphar left everything he had in Joseph’s care; with Joseph in charge, he did not concern himself with anything except the food he ate.
1 Samuel 18
13 So Saul sent David away from him and gave him command over a thousand men, and David led the troops in their campaigns. 14 In everything he did he had great success, because the LORD was with him. 15 When Saul saw how successful he was, he was afraid of him. 16 But all Israel and Judah loved David, because he led them in their campaigns.
2 Kings 18
5 Hezekiah trusted in the LORD, the God of Israel. There was no one like him among all the kings of Judah, either before him or after him. 6 He held fast to the LORD and did not stop following him; he kept the commands the LORD had given Moses. 7 And the LORD was with him; he was successful in whatever he undertook.
It's so easy and natural for us to look upon circumstances or things trying to gauge our success and failure. But God wants us to look upon Him first and realised who we are in Him. When we become conscious of Christ in us, there is power and deliverance from fear into freedom, joy, peace, victory, strength, power, wisdom and every success. When we become more and more Christ-conscious in our everyday life, our life is no longer mediocre or just surviving through day by day but there’s excitement inside us about living and loving people around us. We’ll never be the same because God did not give us a spirit of fear (since our focus is now on Christ) but a spirit of love, power and a sound-mind (2 Timothy 1:7).
The secret to joyful, fulfilling, satisfying, victorious, prosperous, peaceful and healthy life is a life that’s conscious of God’s presence with us all the time. Christ said, "I will never leave you, never will I forsake you (Hebrews 13:5b), I will be with you till the ends of the earth. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9). God is with us and we shall surely succeed in all we do for we are a blessing wherever we go. Once God's favour is upon us, we will find favour in the eyes of people around us.
I would like to share with all of you an excerpt from an email I sent to a dear friend of mine:
“Dearest....., you know what? God is with you. His blessing is upon you. Your blessing doesn't come by you seeking or trying to make the right choices or decisions in order to obtain the blessing. You are already blessed and a blessing! Your hands, thoughts, sight and ways are already blessed by God so now whatever you do shall surely prosper regardless of which job/career you choose, you will be promoted. Don't be afraid of starting small, God will exalt you....... God is with you, you shall surely succeed in whatever job you take.”
Believe that because Jesus is with us, we are blessed and indeed a blessing to our family, church, ministry, workplace and wherever we are. The presence of God in us is "the" blessing. He is the reason of all good things and our confident trust of many good things to come. Surely goodness, unfailing love, lovingkindness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life (Psalms 23:6)
Definition of Hope: The Joyful Confident Expectation of Good things to come (translated from Greek) - Ps. Joseph Prince
You are blessed and a blessing! You've found favour in God's eyes and in the eyes of people around you because of Christ in you!
We are blessed because of Christ in us. His Spirit indwells in us and with His anointing we prosper in all that we do and a blessing wherever we go. We are a carrier of blessings. When we’re conscious of Christ in us, there’s deliverance, power, and victory from fear, worry, anxiety, failure, brokenness and “lack” mentality.
Genesis 39
2 The LORD was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. 3 When his master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD gave him success in everything he did, 4 Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned. 5 From the time he put him in charge of his household and of all that he owned, the LORD blessed the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph. The blessing of the LORD was on everything Potiphar had, both in the house and in the field. 6 So Potiphar left everything he had in Joseph’s care; with Joseph in charge, he did not concern himself with anything except the food he ate.
1 Samuel 18
13 So Saul sent David away from him and gave him command over a thousand men, and David led the troops in their campaigns. 14 In everything he did he had great success, because the LORD was with him. 15 When Saul saw how successful he was, he was afraid of him. 16 But all Israel and Judah loved David, because he led them in their campaigns.
2 Kings 18
5 Hezekiah trusted in the LORD, the God of Israel. There was no one like him among all the kings of Judah, either before him or after him. 6 He held fast to the LORD and did not stop following him; he kept the commands the LORD had given Moses. 7 And the LORD was with him; he was successful in whatever he undertook.
It's so easy and natural for us to look upon circumstances or things trying to gauge our success and failure. But God wants us to look upon Him first and realised who we are in Him. When we become conscious of Christ in us, there is power and deliverance from fear into freedom, joy, peace, victory, strength, power, wisdom and every success. When we become more and more Christ-conscious in our everyday life, our life is no longer mediocre or just surviving through day by day but there’s excitement inside us about living and loving people around us. We’ll never be the same because God did not give us a spirit of fear (since our focus is now on Christ) but a spirit of love, power and a sound-mind (2 Timothy 1:7).
The secret to joyful, fulfilling, satisfying, victorious, prosperous, peaceful and healthy life is a life that’s conscious of God’s presence with us all the time. Christ said, "I will never leave you, never will I forsake you (Hebrews 13:5b), I will be with you till the ends of the earth. Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9). God is with us and we shall surely succeed in all we do for we are a blessing wherever we go. Once God's favour is upon us, we will find favour in the eyes of people around us.
I would like to share with all of you an excerpt from an email I sent to a dear friend of mine:
“Dearest....., you know what? God is with you. His blessing is upon you. Your blessing doesn't come by you seeking or trying to make the right choices or decisions in order to obtain the blessing. You are already blessed and a blessing! Your hands, thoughts, sight and ways are already blessed by God so now whatever you do shall surely prosper regardless of which job/career you choose, you will be promoted. Don't be afraid of starting small, God will exalt you....... God is with you, you shall surely succeed in whatever job you take.”
Believe that because Jesus is with us, we are blessed and indeed a blessing to our family, church, ministry, workplace and wherever we are. The presence of God in us is "the" blessing. He is the reason of all good things and our confident trust of many good things to come. Surely goodness, unfailing love, lovingkindness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life (Psalms 23:6)
Definition of Hope: The Joyful Confident Expectation of Good things to come (translated from Greek) - Ps. Joseph Prince
You are blessed and a blessing! You've found favour in God's eyes and in the eyes of people around you because of Christ in you!
Sunday, 13 February 2011
Less Self-Conscious, More Christ-Occupied
By Josephine Lim
My grandfather passed away on Thursday, 10th February 2011 the day would have been my late grandmother’s 75th birthday. He passed away just three months short of his 86th birthday. It was shocking news whilst on my way to work that morning. I began to feel regret for not spending quality time with my grandfather as I was so caught up with other “impotent” things when I went back home twice for short visit last year. Furthermore he couldn’t hear and speak clearly, it would require lots of patience to communicate. But all in all, I should have made the effort find time to being around him. Time we spent together was too short.
Most of the time, we take things for granted thinking that our family members and friends will be around for many years to come. We do not appreciate them as much by spending quality time with them until we lose them and start to regret. If I could turn back time, I would make it my priority to visit my grandpa and let him talk and pour out his heart contents to me in his mumbling voice. Though I may not understand, though I might miss out on my errands, etc but I wouldn’t have to regret it now.
Life is more important than ambitions, achievements and materialistic gains. Life is irreplaceable and life is so precious that God’s Son paid with his own life to give us life and life more abundantly. Christian life is all about loving God because He first loved us and loving one another as the way we would have loved ourselves (Matthew 22:37-29). If we have done that, we have done it all and it is what life is all about. When we love, we go the extra mile for that precious someone or people we care so dearly no matter how big the obstacles, for life is precious.
Even though yes, I have things require my time and commitment but I have come to realise if at any point in time my family and friends need me around, I would avail myself. If you want to be appreciated, be appreciative of others. If you want to be accepted, accept others. If you want to be loved, start investing in loving and reaching out to others. Do to others what you want others to do to you (Matthew 7:12) and rest assured, all that you do for others will not be in vain, but will surely bear much fruit when you do it with all your heart.
In all our actions, let us always think of the good others. We’ve fallen short and regretted our actions because we are too self-occupied. Sometimes, it could be due to fear of failures, rejections, or being too timid and self-conscious. Sometimes we are overly protective of self for fear of “losing face” or be looked down or despised or humiliated thus we make our decisions from self-perspective thus risking not analysing the consequences of our actions it would cause others. Let us be Christ-occupied because Christ is the best example. He is full of love and wisdom. He’s not a men-pleaser but one who stood for justice and yet full of grace and mercy.
We could never be able to please men 100% but we could start by loving people genuinely and thinking of their good, (little by little) by God’s grace and wisdom. As there are too many lonely and discouraged people out there and we as children of God, let the world know we are His disciples by loving one another (John 13:35). Hint: We could actually start by spending quality time with people who cares and appreciates us the most. Learn to love and appreciate those who truly cherish our presence. Let us be faithful with the few given given to us and eventually God will give us more knowing that we would be able to handle them faithfully (Matthew 25:21).
Let us cherish people God has placed in our lives and not take them for granted. Every single person is precious and let us be worthy stewards and bearers of love, good news and grace to the precious souls around us.
Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate (Proverbs 31:31). And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work (2 Corinthians 9:8).
My grandfather passed away on Thursday, 10th February 2011 the day would have been my late grandmother’s 75th birthday. He passed away just three months short of his 86th birthday. It was shocking news whilst on my way to work that morning. I began to feel regret for not spending quality time with my grandfather as I was so caught up with other “impotent” things when I went back home twice for short visit last year. Furthermore he couldn’t hear and speak clearly, it would require lots of patience to communicate. But all in all, I should have made the effort find time to being around him. Time we spent together was too short.
Most of the time, we take things for granted thinking that our family members and friends will be around for many years to come. We do not appreciate them as much by spending quality time with them until we lose them and start to regret. If I could turn back time, I would make it my priority to visit my grandpa and let him talk and pour out his heart contents to me in his mumbling voice. Though I may not understand, though I might miss out on my errands, etc but I wouldn’t have to regret it now.
Life is more important than ambitions, achievements and materialistic gains. Life is irreplaceable and life is so precious that God’s Son paid with his own life to give us life and life more abundantly. Christian life is all about loving God because He first loved us and loving one another as the way we would have loved ourselves (Matthew 22:37-29). If we have done that, we have done it all and it is what life is all about. When we love, we go the extra mile for that precious someone or people we care so dearly no matter how big the obstacles, for life is precious.
Even though yes, I have things require my time and commitment but I have come to realise if at any point in time my family and friends need me around, I would avail myself. If you want to be appreciated, be appreciative of others. If you want to be accepted, accept others. If you want to be loved, start investing in loving and reaching out to others. Do to others what you want others to do to you (Matthew 7:12) and rest assured, all that you do for others will not be in vain, but will surely bear much fruit when you do it with all your heart.
In all our actions, let us always think of the good others. We’ve fallen short and regretted our actions because we are too self-occupied. Sometimes, it could be due to fear of failures, rejections, or being too timid and self-conscious. Sometimes we are overly protective of self for fear of “losing face” or be looked down or despised or humiliated thus we make our decisions from self-perspective thus risking not analysing the consequences of our actions it would cause others. Let us be Christ-occupied because Christ is the best example. He is full of love and wisdom. He’s not a men-pleaser but one who stood for justice and yet full of grace and mercy.
We could never be able to please men 100% but we could start by loving people genuinely and thinking of their good, (little by little) by God’s grace and wisdom. As there are too many lonely and discouraged people out there and we as children of God, let the world know we are His disciples by loving one another (John 13:35). Hint: We could actually start by spending quality time with people who cares and appreciates us the most. Learn to love and appreciate those who truly cherish our presence. Let us be faithful with the few given given to us and eventually God will give us more knowing that we would be able to handle them faithfully (Matthew 25:21).
Let us cherish people God has placed in our lives and not take them for granted. Every single person is precious and let us be worthy stewards and bearers of love, good news and grace to the precious souls around us.
Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate (Proverbs 31:31). And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work (2 Corinthians 9:8).
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